Good is the enemy of great, so they say.
The logic is that by accepting “good is close enough” then you will never obtain greatness…that you will forever be destined for mediocrity.
However, I think that great is the enemy of good because the need to be perfect stops people even trying.
Brian Tracy: everyone that is good at something once was bad at it. He says this somewhat proudly of himself. Now he is a world famous sales trainer, but admits freely to be awful when he started (did you know you can actually get fired from commission-only sales jobs?!) and it was only because of asking questions and then modelling winners that he succeeded. The lesson: acknowledge you’ll probably suck when you start things – be it selling, or learning Spanish, or playing Stairway to Heaven.
I read a story years ago about Andres Segovia, world famous classical guitarist. He’d get stage fright before concerts, and before one performance – when he came out on stage and sat down he just whacked the strings, making an awful noise on his guitar. He laughed, people wondered what he was up to! He said “it’ll get better now..” and started to play. Apparently the fear of making that type of noise paralysed him with fear, so by making it, it was over at the start. He could move on. The lesson – imagine what worst thing that can happen – and decide if you can live with that. You probably can.
Sometimes “the worst” is not all bad. I did an email once to a “bought list” that I hadn’t checked properly… I was just too excited about getting my message out to this group of people (72000 email addresses). When I did the email, then I looked at the list and realised it had the details of all kinds of people I didn’t want to email – various suppliers and competitors – for a product I was keeping “secret”. I nearly had a heart attack! Then I thought to myself “well, that was the worst that could have happened. It just happened. It wasn’t so bad.” Then I told a few people and had a laugh about it. The worst was over, and nothing bad happened.
So, while there is another lesson in here (check your lists!) on the balance of things – action still beats inaction.
Lack of action is often shown in two different ways.
One is perfectionism. The other is procrastination.
They are related. In fact, people who are perfectionists wear it as a badge of honour, yet I think it masks a fear of action. Or a fear of being judged. The perfectionist would have you believe that they will do X when it is all ready to roll out. For now on they are working on it. The flaw in this is that 90% of the things being worked on never see the light of day. So, perfection causes everything to just stall. How many really good books (or songs, or business plans, or proposals…) are left 90% done, and never see the light of day?
I knew someone once (no, not me…) that went on a 7 day holiday by the beach and never went for a swim, because for them a swim had to be planned, kids looked after, the right time of day etc… and this just slipped by day after day. Time to pack up and leave, and no swim.
Procrastination is more obvious, but I think the root causes are the same: Fear of an action with an imperfect result.
I think beginning is the hardest thing. When I used to run I had a deal with myself. If I didn’t feel like running I’d just put my shoes on, take a step outside, and see what happened. The hardest part of getting the mental energy together to lace up your shoes. After that a 10km run just happened. (OK, now I don’t run…or swim, or cycle – you’d guess if we met).
As I am writing this I am thinking… there are things I am guilty of procrastinating about right now because I can’t do them perfectly. It is often easier to to spot these traits in other people (like I did with our friend at the beach) but a great question to ask is “where do I do this?”. This is a great universal lesson actually. When you see someone be rude at a waiter, or rude in a shop… ask yourself “when do I do this?”. It is illuminating.
I don’t know who said it, but a great quote is “The person who doesn’t read is no better than the person who can’t”.
What are you not doing because you’re not great at it?
In your business, this could be finally doing the direct mail letter you know you should do… even if your letter is imperfect. Are the flaws in your letter keeping it from ever seeing the light of day. And to twist the quote above, the person who doesn’t write is no better than the person who can’t.
Phone some customers…even if you don’t have a script prepared.
What can you start and allow yourself to be bad at, so that you can progress through average then excellent…without letting the elusiveness of excellence hold you back. Write. Learn a language. Play the guitar. Put your shoes on.
And don’t allow ‘great’ stop you from being ‘good’.
Stuart
PS Could I have written this entry better? Sure. Could I have researched some more stories? Sure. Could it have just have stayed on my laptop until it was perfect? Sure. Maybe forever. Dan Kennedy says “I’d rather be prolific than perfect”, so I went with that.